What Islam says about Sex?
Sex during marriage
is a good thing. Out of marriage it is a sin and out of the question.
Therefore Islam say
yes to sex during marriage and totally go against pre-marital sex.
Sex is a natural
part of life and we have to understand that. What isnít natural is to
have sex without a husband or wife - without the true commitment of
So whatís the big
deal about having sex out of wedlock? All the kids are doing it? Well
here is the fact why they are:
pressure-- "since everybody is doing it."
sexual competence with adults and a way to get ahead.
self-esteem, which they want to improve by becoming a father or mother.
is a lack of alternatives to divert their sexual energies.
Lack of love
and appreciation at home. Detachment from home can lead to attachment
pressure on them is everywhere: at school from their peers, from the TV
where about 20,000 sexual scenes are broadcasted in advertisement, soap
operas, and MTV.
So big deal if kids
are doing it? It is a big deal in for their health when kids are having
sex. The health hazards of early sex includes sexual trauma, increase
in incidence of cervical cancer, sexually transmitted disease, and
teenage pregnancy. Many injuries are possible and happen when sex
organs are not ready for sex in terms of full maturation. Some of these
injuries have a long lasting effect. Cervical cancer is thought to be
related to sex at an early age, and with multiple partners.
Bottom lineóNO SEX